I for a long time despised femininity and anything soft. I lead with my masculinity and was damn proud of it. In the corporate world I was a masculine chick in heels with a lot of accomplishments and did not feel I needed to be more feminine, where was that going to take me? I was in the world of the masculine after all. I felt my gender as a female was enough. Until I found out how much suffering denying myself my own femininity was causing in my relationships, business